Feelings or Frustration!!!

How often an individual cursed himself / herself for getting in a relation at a wrong time!!!?? 

How often an individual cursed the lady luck where in s/he got in a relation with a right person at a wrong time!!!?? 

How often did a confused soul be it after a break up or a divorce got into relation oblivion to the fact the impact it might have on other if the involvement was out of insane feeling and not just sexual need / frustration!!!?? 

Too each his own – is what they say…. 

Sex is and will be one of the most important DE FACTO not just for happiness but for to survive through upheavals of togetherness. But, is it everything under the Sun!!!?? 

Guess yes!!! Guess no!!! 

Seldom m/women be it from all cast or creed would forget the first relation, the first breakup, the first marriage, the first divorcee and yet after super turbulence when one seizes an opportunity to get back in relation one should know the difference between – Feelings Vs the Frustration!!! 

There’s nothing wrong in having a friend with benefits…. But, if relation is meant to knock the walls and ring the bells, better have the clarity within the walls of the soul / mind!! 

You can’t blame the culprit as once it taste's the blood it wants more and more…. But the then there’s also a difference between animals and humans – one is just a prey the other becomes a victim for no - reason - WHATSOEVER!!! :-)) 

Calling you a Teacher is like degrading the "Hindsight!!!"

In many countries, Teachers' Day is a special day for the appreciation of teachers, and may include celebrations to honour them for their special contributions in a particular area!!!

Schools, teachers and Students celebrate the day as if there’s no tomorrow!!! 

But are those the real teachers??

Geeta, Kuran and Bible once were considered as epitome of respective religion – Until men / women irrespective of creed or cast came face – off with reality!!!   

The best teacher then we knew were not from school… 

Those were / are good mentors…. 

The real one was / is someone else!!! 

On occasions it made all of us Vulnerable…. It made us mad, angry filled with rage... 

Nonetheless it also taught us that ultimate lesson…. 

And what is that?? 

GUESS HINDSIGHT!! 

Happy teachers day!!! :-)) "

"Commitment" was just a custom, it wasn't a rule - anymore!!!

He was charming, built like a tank, with that sharp jaw-line, straight nose, he was drop-dead handsome. 

She; well she was independent, she was sexy, insanely rich but lonely... 

He had an ability to crawl into his woman’s mind and make her imagination go wild… After all these years of flirting, one night stand, affairs with married women, prostitutes here he was finally on a lookout for a serious, long lasting legitimate relation.

A decade long marriage, a kid, enormous wealth she had everything a woman could have dreamt of and yet she felt something terribly amiss!!

On one such evening their path crossed and what started just as a fling soon turned into a forbidden yet very arousing affair...

Been there done that. 

Here he was yet again playing to the tunes. 

She knew it was nothing short of sin and yet emotions had overpowered her logic.

She had finally found peace in her everlasting conflict... 

For him there was no point in being in a relation which wasn’t going to last and yet the reward of a forbidden “fruit” was way too high than the risk!

They had gone beyond nuance of right or wrong!!

For them "COMMITMENT WAS JUST A CUSTOM IT WASN’T A RULE” anymore!! 

Connect was an excuse… The real need was of sex!!!

How can sex not be a Big Deal?

Sex by far is the most beautiful god’s gift to mankind. 

Release is one thing but taking along the partner to that ultimate height of orgasm is what has made one best against just.

BUT IS SEX EVERYTHING?

An article I came across “We Indians Need To Be More Liberal About” stated “Sex as no big deal!” 
I read and re-read it number of times, just to reach at conclusion that points mentioned made sense but, title and certainly image used was pathetic. 

Sex by and large is important aspect for healthy relation / marriage. But is it everything under the sun once in relation / committed...??

"Physical incompatibility" can and does lead to breakups or divorce which are acceptable.

But, infidelity / want of having more than one partner leading to end of relation – is no good for anyone!

Sex may not be a big deal for one who screw-up things but, can have lifelong devastating effect on other person and families! 

Sex may not also be a big deal for those who indulge in relation for sex when on rebound - be it after Breakups or Divorce!  

Cause like a full grown tiger; once you taste the blood you want more and more!!

But, then men and women involved too are secretive about such relations for reasons better known to them. 

There two ways to look at it!

Right or Wrong?? 

"TO EACH HIS OWN!!"

But, Sex certainly is a Big Deal to save families or to start a family! 

WHAT SAY?? :-) 

Once an addict always an addict!!

Society by and large has referred addiction to physical and psychological dependence on a substance, such as alcohol or drugs.


Engaging in drugs or alcohol creates chemical changes in brain.. What most of us fail to understand;

Its the same with ”LOVE!”

Just like alcohol, like drugs “Being in Love” too creates  ENDORPHINS in brain. 

Which act as super natural sedative!

It generates ULTIMATE EUPHORIA and the QUEST for more and more release of endorphin continues…

  

Problem begins when – One goes high and dry! - "BE IT IN RELATION OR DUE TO FAILED MARRIAGE..." 

Then what remains if not drugs; is Infidelity, Smoking, Racing, Gaming, Gambling, Shopping, Eating, Internet, Pornography, 

The world may not see us as drug or alcohol addicts nonetheless here we are...

PRISONERS STANDING ON EITHER SIDE OF A CELL!

She was beyond... the realms of physical intimacy!!!

Sex, without a commitment was an easier proposition and yet he had refrained for a long time..  

But, destiny had something else in stored!!!

They say; things happen when you least expect them to happen!!!  

That was the day!! 

When good old friend walked in – little did anyone on the floor knew, she was about to be divorced!!! 

Little was he aware!!

He was good looking, he had a charm, but not once he took undue advantage of anyone's situation!!

After excessive smoking, drinking, racing, gaming, gambling and deliberately staying away from women...  

HERE SHE WAS ABOUT TO CHANGE HER OWN AND HIS LIFE FOREVER!!!

She was the one who took him to bed and since then he just dominated the air!

Yet for him:  

Her absence, her presence was everything.   

Not once he had thought of her for just sexual encounter!!!

Irrespective of age, social status and her maddening past..... He was madly in love with her...   

FOR HIM SHE WAS BEYOND REALMS OF PHYSICAL INTIMACY!!!

He still had his views crystal clear... Her past had just made her "decision making" completely wired!! In spite of a guilt.... 

She had learnt her lesson... UNFORTUNATELY AT HIS COST!!!

"One would never know..... Until one walks a mile in their shoes!!"

Right from the most insignificant thing like a traffic jam, to a break-up, from insolvency in a business to someone who fails to keep his/her job, from seeing someone lose their parents, to divorce to miscarriage to seeing children pass-away in front of you to mother of all pains - SEEING BETRAYAL IN FRIENDSHIP - more often than not we easily switch onto a console mode! 

Worst is when someone indicates to "Move On" 

The question is DO WE REALLY CARE?? 

The Answer could well be - YES! 

But honestly look from a closer range, you'll notice "WE SILENTLY LAUGH!" 

Not on them per say - 

We laugh and thank god for 

"WE NOT BEING IN THE SIMILAR DIRE STATE!" 

The truth is 

"One would never know what it's like until one walks a mile in their shoes!!" 

Stop fooling YOURSELF..........

" No one can play God!!!"